Challenge №9 "A complimant to an unknown person"

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"Fair words please the conversation," - says one proverb. My new challenge can prove it. This time I needed to make a compliment to an unknown person.
So I came to the shop situated near my house yesterday. I decided to buy some food. And I said to the seller that she looked beautiful that day. She looked at me with a stange sight but I was smiling at her. And then she smiled me back. That was a little bit awlward but at the same time I was happy that I made another person smile.
It's a good experience. I think we should tell more pleasant things to each other even if to unknown people.

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